"TO ALL THOSE WHO HAVE LOST THEIR BEST FRIEND"

 I miss YOU!

       I just lost my best friend today. Most of us feel so sorry in our life for losing the best people we ever met. We miss them every day,every hour even every second. Tell you what, its really hard to find a replacement to that very special person. And it hurts so bad! But why or how did we really lose them?

       Good friendships take a certain level of investment. Our friends may not be perfect.Neither are we. Nor can one find a friend if he looks for perfectness in every person he meet. But the mutual trust and understanding makes the story of best friends just perfect! And its our friends who bring a kind of stability and normality to our lives. But my question is... WHY DO WE LOSE THEM?

     We lose friends when we start thinking about ourselves more and more each day. Friends cannot always stay by your side,holding your hands and saying this nightmare is gonna pass. They have a life of their own to live. A job to deal with and a girlfriend or a boyfriend to take care of. We don't own our friends.We don't own anyone or anything in this world. So what we have to do is simply "let it go". But still, hold on to the same old wonderful relationship that you had with this one special person. Even if you cant have it in real time,keep it in your heart. Just let it live and grow in your warm little heart! Because someday, somewhere you are definitely going to get him back. 

    Most of us think of our partners or lovers as our soulmates but in many cases its not right. Our best friends prove to be our soulmates in major cases. They can say whats in our mind by just looking at our face or judge our mood by a single word we speak. And they don't even have to ask us to know the reason behind our lost look. Our best friends do not judge us with what we say or do because they know what we are within. They chose to cling to us no matter how crazy and weird we are and give us their best. And if we ever lose them, my dear,its totally your mistake!

    Be selfless and chase away your ego and possessiveness. Let you friend live his or her live and be happy to be a part of it. Never expect your friend to consider you his life or his world. But be an essential for him to live his life. Respect your friend's personal space. Never complain if he was busy with his job or family or something else that is important for him. Instead be all ears and eyes when he is finally back to you. You will find your friendship growing and blooming every time you spend time together this way.

    Losing your best friend is like losing yourself. So never ever commit this mistake. I just did! I lost this wonderful person because i was being a little selfish and a little egoistic. Well, the worst is done now and apologizing is not quiet enough. But saying a big SORRY does the magic at times. My dear Friend, if you are reading this i want you know that you were the best thing that had ever happened in my life. You were my living diary and its too hard for me to hate you.

     "Dear Best Friend, you are weird, you are stupid and funny. 

You have no real brain!

 I am like that too. 

I guess that's why we are so perfect together. 

Thanks for always being there for me.

I love YOU.

 Still you are stupid! "